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Who Can Be A Legal Parent
The Uniform Parentage Act (UPA) governs who can become a legal parent. UPA allows someone who is not a biological parent to be presumed parent because they have cared for the child and parented the child. Under the law, “A person is presumed to be the natural parent of a child if the person …. receives…
Read MoreCourt Could Off-Set Child Support Obligations with 1/2 Rental Value of the House
Husband and wife get separated. Wife’s attorney gets an order from the Court for Wife to live in the family home with the children exclusively without husband and for husband to pay monthly child support and spousal support to the wife. Husband does not pay his support payments and ends up owing support to the…
Read MoreThanksgiving in 2020
I was thinking why many people sound sad about Thanksgiving this year? Okay don’t make fun of me, I am conscious of the circumstances. But really where do disappointments come from? We have a picture of what is ideal in our minds. Ideal Thanksgiving, ideal partner, ideal job, ideal home, and ideal us. When we…
Read MoreWhat do you want to focus on in your divorce process?
What is the focus and background of divorce litigation? How dare you betray me? I will show you. You are wrong and I am right. You are not going to screw me. You have no right. You owe me. Why? It is all about domination and avoiding domination. Emotions feed the actions and reactions and…
Read MoreIt Is Not Divorce Itself That Causes Pain and Suffering
It is the story a person has about the divorce that causes the experience of divorce. Typical divorce stories: I am unloved, used goods, a failure, alone. A divorce story can be: I am free I can focus on myself and how I want to grow My life is mine A new journey yes Nothing…
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