Key to being powerful in your relationship: How to be responsible and the right influence in your relationship?

1.  Create a mission statement and mutual goals for the relationship together.
2.  Build a structure of how to deal with breakdowns together.  Find out for example what does your partner want you to do when he or she is upset dealing with something.

Sometimes, we get enrolled in the possibility of a relationship with someone, and then it becomes about working it out or the commitment to make the relationship work.  Owning and recognizing your commitment is the key.  What is your true commitment in the area of relationship?

We need to be honest with ourselves.  What do you want from a relationship? Is this person a good match for what you want?  What are the challenges of this relationship?  Are these challenges opportunities for my growth in the way I want to grow?

To choose it responsibly, you will need to answer these questions to be true to yourself rather than try to make it into something else.

Call me for a complimentary session for support of whether you want to stay in a marriage or for support on how to have the best growing relationship with your partner.